You’re Not Lost: You’re in Transition
- Rhonda Large
- 4 days ago
- 2 min read
There are phases in life where nothing feels clear.
You’re not where you used to be…
but you’re not fully settled into what’s next either.
You might look around and think,
“I don’t recognise my life.”
“I don’t feel like myself.”
“I should have it figured out by now.”
It can feel like you’ve lost direction.
Often, you haven’t. You’re in transition.
🌙 Transition Feels Like Disorientation
We expect growth to feel inspiring and certain.
In reality, it often feels confusing first.
You may notice:
Old routines don’t fit the same
Things that once mattered feel flat
You feel restless but unsure why
You question choices you were once sure about
This doesn’t mean you’ve gone off track. It means the old phase is dissolving before the new one fully forms.
🧠 Identity Shifts Happen Quietly
You’re not just changing circumstances, you’re changing internally.
Your needs, boundaries, values, and emotional responses evolve. But there’s often a gap between inner change and outer life catching up.
That gap can feel like being “lost,” when really you’re adjusting to a new version of yourself.
✨ The In-Between Is a Real Phase
We often only celebrate beginnings and endings.
But the in-between stage, where things are unclear, is where integration happens.
You’re:
Letting go of who you were
Learning who you’re becoming
Reorganising emotionally
Building new perspectives
It’s a process, not a failure.
🌿 Tarot Meets You Here Gently
During transitions, people often come to tarot not for dramatic predictions, but for reassurance and perspective.
A reading can help you see:
What part of your life is closing
What emotional themes are shifting
Where new energy is quietly emerging
Why you feel unsettled
Understanding the stage reduces the fear.
🤍 Feeling Uncertain Doesn’t Mean You’re Doing Life Wrong
We’re taught that adulthood should look steady and clear.
But growth comes in waves. Periods of stability are followed by periods of adjustment.
Transition is part of the rhythm, not a sign you’ve failed.
🌙 Something Is Forming Beneath the Surface
Even if you can’t see it yet, change is happening.
New boundaries. New awareness. New priorities.
They develop internally before showing externally.
💜 You’re Not Behind: You’re Becoming
The discomfort isn’t a sign to panic.
It’s often a sign you’re shedding an old layer and preparing for the next.
✨ In Simple Terms
You’re not lost.
You’re between chapters, and that space is part of growth.
💫 True power lies within. Transition can feel like confusion before it feels like clarity.




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