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What Is Tarot Really? (And What It’s Not)

  • Writer: Rhonda Large
    Rhonda Large
  • Jan 20
  • 3 min read

Updated: Jan 25

As a tarot reader, one of the most important parts of my work isn’t the cards themselves. It’s helping clients understand what tarot can and cannot do.


Tarot works best when expectations are clear, grounded, and realistic. This creates readings that are supportive, empowering, and genuinely useful, rather than confusing or fear-based.


So before we begin, here’s how I approach tarot, and what you can expect from it.


🌿 What Tarot Is (In My Practice)

Tarot is a reflective and intuitive guidance tool.


I use the cards to:

  • Explore emotional and energetic patterns

  • Bring clarity to situations where you feel stuck or overwhelmed

  • Reflect what’s currently influencing your choices

  • Highlight themes, possibilities, and inner blocks

  • Support self-awareness and conscious decision-making


The cards act as a mirror, helping us see what may be hard to recognise on our own when emotions are involved.


Tarot is not about control or certainty. It’s about understanding.


🧠 How Tarot Readings Work

A tarot reading is a collaborative process.


I interpret the symbolism and energy of the cards through intuition, experience, and context — but your life, your choices, and your feelings are always central.


Readings are shaped by:

  • What’s present now

  • Your emotional state and circumstances

  • The questions you bring (or don’t bring)

  • Your willingness to reflect honestly


This is why no two readings are ever the same — even with the same cards.


✨ What Tarot Is Not

To manage expectations clearly, it’s important to say what tarot is not in my work:


Tarot is not:

  • A fortune-telling service predicting fixed outcomes

  • A tool for spying on other people’s private thoughts

  • A way to override free will: yours or anyone else’s

  • A substitute for legal, medical, or mental health advice

  • A method for making decisions for you


I don’t give fear-based messages, ultimatums, or absolute predictions.


If a reading leaves you feeling powerless or dependent, something has gone off course.


🌙 Free Will & Responsibility

Tarot reflects current energies and influences, not guaranteed futures.


People change. Circumstances shift. Choices matter.


A reading may show:

  • Likely directions if nothing changes

  • Emotional patterns influencing behaviour

  • Areas calling for attention or care

  • Where clarity or boundaries are needed


What you do with that information is always your choice.

Tarot supports empowerment, not surrender of responsibility.


🤍 Why This Matters

Clear expectations create better readings.


When clients understand that tarot is:

  • Reflective rather than predictive

  • Supportive rather than directive

  • Insight-focused rather than outcome-obsessed


…they tend to leave readings feeling calmer, clearer, and more self-trusting, not anxious or dependent.


That is always my intention.


💜 A Note on Ethics & Care

I approach tarot with care, boundaries, and respect.


There are certain questions I won’t explore, not because they’re “forbidden,” but because they move away from empowerment and into fear, obsession, or loss of agency.


My role is not to tell you what to do, it’s to help you hear yourself more clearly.


✨ In Simple Terms

Tarot is not about handing your power to the cards or the reader.


It’s about using symbolism and intuition to reflect what’s already unfolding, so you can move forward with greater awareness and self-trust.


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💫 True power lies within. Tarot simply helps bring it into focus.

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Blyth, Northumberland · Serving Northumberland & surrounding areas

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